Steps To Win Custody: List their weaknesses
December 10th, 2008 by Ron Jones | Filed under Win Custody.Winning custody requires that you sit down, make a plan, and follow through. After you get a good child custody lawyer, it’s important that you compile some documentation. The first is a list of the other person’s weaknesses
The other person is usually your spouse, or former spouse. But in some cases it could be grandparents, foster parents, siblings, or even the state.
Whether it’s character issues like poor money management, self-destructive habits, keeping bad company…or situation issues like living in an unsafe neighborhood. Be objective, and be honest. Focus on how the other person’s weaknesses might negatively affect the best interests of your child.
We’re going to present the other person’s weaknesses as part of our strategy for proving that you are the best parent. And we’re going to do it without coming across as vindictive or spiteful.
In the Custody Strategies package, Chapter 11 is devoted to ‘what is the best approach for a parent to use in a child custody dispute.’ While one of the supplements is devoted to the question of ‘what do judges look at when they make family court
The judge is not going to care about you, or your circumstances. The judge is concerned with one thing, and one thing only. The best interest of your child. During this process, you’re going to hear that phrase a lot.
Your every action, (and reaction) should be focused on proving that the loving home that you provide is in the best interest of your child. This is your single focus if you want to win custody.
So, go make a list of the other party’s weakesses and get that information to your lawyer.